WRITTEN BY NEVAEH TILLMAN
Do you ever feel like you are being taken for granted? Does it ever get so overwhelming? Caroline Grace Vein, also known as blondestandard, and I know exactly how you feel. blondestandard speaks from her experience and releases a new single, “NOT THE ONLY ONE.” She explains, “It’s about the frustration of being used—especially when you’re someone who leads with kindness and openness—only to realize too late that not everyone has your best interests at heart. It’s not easy to go through these experiences, but as much as they hurt, they also teach you invaluable lessons about boundaries, self-respect, and not letting people take your kindness for granted. I’ve found peace in being able to look back at those moments and realize that I’m better for having lived through them. The song isn’t just about the pain; it’s about acknowledging that pain, finding closure, and using it to grow."
If you know how it feels to be mistreated, or if you need to let off some steam, this is the perfect song to get you amped up! This song demonstrates strength within oneself. It’s one thing to acknowledge your own pain, but using that pain to find love within yourself and grow as a person—that's POWERFUL! I love that the message is so emotional and grand, yet the song sends out the grooviest vibes. The electric beat is strong and catchy—it instantly makes you want to bop your head. You have to; no ands, ifs, or buts. Keeping the energy almost as high as keeping your head up. I love it! And I love Vein’s story just as much!
Vein was born and raised in Los Angeles. She dove deep into her love for music, but her music journey was sent to a halt when she was diagnosed with cancer. However, she faced that journey with her head held high by continuing her love for music. As mentioned in her press release, “Through two years of adversity, Vein channeled her creativity into writing and recording through her treatment, deepening her craft and connection to music.” If that doesn’t prove her passion for music, I don't know what would. She is a beautiful person inside and out and her music showcases that. All in all, you should give Vein her tokens because hard work does pay off! Especially with the love for music bleeding through her veins. Listen to “NOT THE ONLY ONE” to be a part of the magic.